What is the definition of living together?

BORING DAY AGAIN. My bro has been constantly saying my blog is somewhat of a complaint box for me. Well, I would like to say is that: It is. Since no one is interested in my writings, I might as well make this blog as an escapade from my daily problems. It is nice to express myself for once.
I finally got to watch an old movie, since it had been shown in cinemas for about 2 years ago? It’s a teen flick or some chick amateur flick of some sort (yes, I like chick flick, romantic comedies, etc etc. I know I am studied film, but hey, it’s what I choose to like, you horror-loving morons). Starring Jaycee Chan and Fiona Xie, the English title’s called 2Young (Chinese: 早熟). I was touched by it, with some power acting by 毛舜君and 黄秋生。He was particularly stellar when he tried to arrange stuff for Fiona Xie when he found out her daughter was preggers. She shouted to him:”You always arrange things for me! You don’t even know what your daughter wants!” That brought tears to me…*sob*
But what makes me curious is when both Jaycee and Fiona run off to the countryside to live together. Jaycee makes money by doing odd-jobs and Fiona becomes a cute little housewife. And how do they survive? By eating maggi mee and canned foods, scouring for fishes in a nearby pond and sweet potatoes in a field. Walaoeh, got so nice a place to stay in HK meh? Abandoned place in Sai Kung, with nothing in it, they decorated it like heaven, then rich girl Fiona learns how to cook and wash, like oblivious to the fact that she is pregnant! Then Jaycee like so good, get money and give it all to Fiona. (wow, girls would drool for it!) And they had a small argument about nothing to talk anymore, and the end of the argument. Wow…what a fairytale story.
Here’s the main point: what is really, the definition of staying together? Call it what you want, living together, shack up, cohabit, 同居, bersekedudukan…but what does it actually mean?I won’t Wikipedia coz I think it is lame to do so. I’ve had several friends who does that with their partners, recently a bizarre case where they actually live together without being acknowledged as partners yet. So…………….that is really odd. As per usual, I’m not entitled to give my POV so that I might AGAIN offend people. But does anyone read it? SOOOO CONFUSING…might as well blow my head off, you people.
My definition of living together would be like, ok, you guys wanna stay together for purposes of saving rent costs, fine. Will think of trying to live together to see if relationships do work after marriage, ok, fine. Will think of trying to live together ‘coz erm…we have been staying together for past few months and we just got into this relationship so..what the heck! We might as well stay together now! Erm…that is just plain weird. I’m not saying that these people wanna live together for the sake of ‘we lived together before’ thingy. Maybe I am a conservative person, maybe I am not. But I just can’t help to think that people who just hooked up a few days would live together just before! Is it plain foreplay? Or is it just I dunno, plain wacko job? What are the ramifications? You could be like over the relationship but have to still have to stay in the same freakin’ room until the tenancy is over. What would your parents say if they found out a guy that has only been going out with you for a couple of weeks waking up next to you, shirtless (I’m not saying sleeping shirtless with the love-of-your-life is not good. I’m just saying, if you have banged her, then it’s legally ok)? The effects of living together is not really good. I once contemplated in living together if I have a bf, which I don’t. But someone, let’s call her T, told me the best thing in relationships is to keep a distance from each other. If you live together, the chances are arguments and possibly sick of each others faces (that is, if you people like to eat each others faces when kissing). Maybe some people love the idea of living together. There are happy endings to living together. What I am saying is: think before doing it. And to my friends, you know who you are, what’s happened during that past few months, I have absolutely no idea. Mind clearing that up?
So what is the definition of living together? You tell me. If you happen to read this of course. ( But I doubt it)

Sod Off! Need Anger Management? Or just don't piss me off!

I'm feeling abit pissy these few days. And I start to wonder: what is it that no one agrees to what I've said or done? And why are they picking on stuff that I've suggested?

Take a simple scenario: whenever that I suggest a place or something to do, only a few agrees to follow. Others just somehow 'shimmy' away. And when the others do the same, then they say, 'Yeah OK!' WTF!

And another thing. I AM NOT LOADED. I HAVE NO MONEY OR WHATSOEVER. DO NOT THINK MY FAMILY IS FACKING RICH OR WHAT. THEY HAVE A BUSINESS. AND IF THAT BUSINESS IS DEEMED ILLEGAL IN THIS COUNTRY, GOD KNOWS WHAT WE WILL DO.

Don't you all know that your parents are the ones who are lucky and safe? So what if I have stuff that you guys don't? So what if I choose to live a better life? I do not have extra cash. I have to do something to get them, not just say, hey, I need rmxxx, and presto! I get it.
Absurd people. Stupid as they seem, they think I'm rich. Fools. They are the ones who should thank their lucky stars that they were born in a good family, with caring parents and siblings and a steady income. They don't know us, they don't know what my family have to strive to get what we have. And it could become bust suddenly. But no one seem to care. No one. All they think is that I'm well off than them.

I JUST CHOOSE TO LIVE BETTER. AND CHOOSE TO DO WHAT I WISH TO. NOT WORRY ABOUT MATERIALISTIC STUFF, SAY....MONEY???



I felt the compelling urge to strangle, wring off their heads and throw certain people in the murky dark waters of the Straits of Malacca. Don't think that you are shielding behind someone that you make yourself innocent. Even if that person thinks fondly of you, you still piss me off.

Maybe I need anger management. Maybe I am Niki Sanders, and inside me is Jessica. Maybe. Just maybe.

So why can't I let me dark side out?

My Friends

This is my happy family.

And they are my friends.

Wanna know more about them?
I will post some descriptions about them soon.

It's sad that we will be separating soon, going our own ways.
Good luck in our future undertakings!

And take care.

It's official: I'm Unemployed!

Finally, I'm done with all the assignments and exams...I'm finished with the crappy people that I had to put up during those days (same class summore...)!

But the cruel fact is: I'm unemployed.

Anyone with jobs, please contact me.

Thank You For Your Kindness.

Amen

Confused....and I'm speechless...Stupid Me.

Let's see...am I the firestoker right now? You be the judge.

Please dun confuse us all ok??? Change d title of bj coursework file
Hey...u get us all confused ok??Just nw i opened it, hoping to see our marks...then...All onli T1 marks!!!Kena tipu aje!Please lah...do be careful in putting topic names...Not onli T1 ppl surfing this page ok?Thanks...
"derrin_goh85" derrin_goh85@yahoo.com

Re: [BC_LM] Please dun confuse us all ok??? Change d title of bj coursework file....
"BC_LM" stand for Broadcast Last Minute... Nothingconfuse...
gan lim

Re: Please dun confuse us all ok??? Change d title of bj coursework file....
i'm not talking abt d title!!can u open ur eyes n seee???CHANGE D TITLE OF BJ COURSEWORK FILE!
"derrin_goh85" derrin_goh85@yahoo.com

something to say...
sorry to say...
the file was post at BC_LM...so definitely for BC Tutorial 1...
if the result is for whole BCY3S3, of coz will post at BC Y3
grace ring

Re: something to say...
Before surffing any page or site on the Internet please check whichthat you are surffing... enter to the right site.BC_LM is obviously for T1.. of course only consist of T1 stuff...nothing less...We welcome other people to visit but please be clear what you arecommenting...
"limpikgan"

Re: something to say...
Although BC_LM is for T1 only...but...the front page does not statethat it is only for T1 students only. This can somehow create aconfusion for the other tutorial group...moreover, if it is a privateforum, then I dunno why we are not entitled to access this forum. Weare a team, a pioneer team, unless we segregate each other likeenemies, then why not share what we have? It is an era of freedom of information and speech, thus we should be sharing out our information.If i do offend any of your T1 compadres, then i offer my deepest and utmost apologies.Thank You Very Much.Only my 2 cents worth.
"derrin_goh85" derrin_goh85@yahoo.com

2 cents apologizes?? only.... cents
this is the last thing i want to say:sometime we open our house for others to visit,and welcome them tovisit anytime, but does not mean the "guest" has the right to commentthe house whether the house is comfortable to him / her ... and we donot need to state clearly that the house belongs to "us", and we havethe right to put any colour to our house. so, i think the page ownerdoes not need to state clearly this page is for t1, even she welcomeother people to visit.also, i do welcome comment from others but manners do matter. by theway, friends from t1 stop me to comment again... so i think i shouldRESPECT them, because this page belongs to them too!
"limpikgan"

Re: something to say...
the better way to stop be enemy is shut ur mouth up at the right time.whats wrong with u? if so dissatisfy then just get away la from thisforum le. don take for granted n think someone have to prepareeverything here for anyone. learn to be appreciate since u never putany effort here to benefit anyone so long.so, don try to say wat shareanything we got and bla bla bla all nonsense. why have to create suchambiance here? third year last sem, as u know, we do have a goodrelationship with other tutorial group so far. so don try to playsb.off against each other。 thank u very much too !
"tracytanleehwa"

stop fighting~be peace
ya...i agree~~save the time to male frens better than this.DO REMEMBER:don't rely on others to give u anything...
"wong jing xiao"

What I didn't know was that it was 'meant' for a tutorial group...stupid me...but I dunno why my friends have this forum address. Turns out that it was given to her by a friend who invited us to go there.

BC@LM is for all of us
please... stop fighting, ==+though this group was for T1 when firstly created, its belong to all of us since i invited T2 and T3's friends to join and changed its front page picture to the current 1. if this changes make anyone of you unhappy please forgive me, i apologize. we all are classmates, why can't we share things that we have here? however also we all are gonna graduate very the soon, its no point to fighting to each other...
"tengx1018"






So I am really stupid. Stupid to fall in this trap...stupid to be me.
I am really dumb to act that it is a happy family forum.
Now most people will think that I am a troublemaker, after what I have changed to defend myself.

This is all too idealistic to me. Maybe I should know the cruel world.

Stupid Me.

SLR....where art thou...?

See these two pictures? This is my friend Helen. To tell you the truth, she's not that attractive (please don't kill me), but what makes her much nicer? These two photos of course. Do they reek of professionalism? (no.) Do they look like they are shot by a professional photographer? (erm..)

THESE TWO PHOTOS ARE SHOT BY.....

BY....

BY....

BY....ME.

YES. ME. YOURS TRULY.

It is no doubt that my camera is the magical wand.

Nikon D40x. What wonders does it make?

For once, it makes people bearable. (woot!)

And, it exudes professionalism-lar....

God...when can I get a SLR???

Be Enchanted!

Last week I went to watch the most anticipated movie, 'Enchanted'.
Now, some of you might think that this is some sappy and childish Disney flick, conning parents and kids to the cinemas, but I can assure you...
IT IS A BIG FAT NOOOOOOOOOO!! I fell completely in love with it!! SOOOO DAMN NICE!!!!!!

The story goes like this: A princess (Amy Adams) in the fairy tale kingdom of Andalasia was gonna get married to her true love, Prince Edward (James Marsden). Alas, the Queen (of course the bad one lah) tricked Giselle into making a wish at a wishing well. The ‘jahat’ Queen (Susan Sarandon) pushed Giselle into the well and voila! She appears in the real world (through a 5th Avenue manhole!). She is freaked out by the unfriendly real world, yet she meets a divorce lawyer Robert (Patrick ‘McDreamy’ Dempsey). He helps her out, yet feels she is too weird (she hor, cuts fabric out of curtains to make dresses and also ask rodents and pigeons to help her clean up the house!!!YUCK!) Eventually they fall for each other. But Prince Edward is also looking for her, as well as the evil Queen and her aide, Nathaniel (Tim Spall). Then, how will they fight through to defeat the Queen? Will Giselle follow Robert or Edward? That’s for you to find out! (Please, don’t buy pirated VCD, DVD, or download!)

What attracts me to watch it? I’m sure all of us would have watch one or two Disney Princess series right? Well, this is a spoof of ALL the Disney Princess series, yet making it more enjoyable. PLUS, the songs are so damn nice! I was told that the songs are sampled from the other Disney songs, but I don’t feel like that lor! The song that I love is a song from Jon Mclaughlin called ‘So Close’. It is so romantic, yet the lyrics is sad. When your love is close to you, yet you can’t love him or her, it is the worst thing ever. Just like the Chinese saying, the farthest thing in the world is I’m standing in front of you, yet you don’t know that I love you…*swoon*..

Character wise, it boasts of cool and good actors, from Amy Adams (love her from Catch Me if You Can), James Marsden (versatile from X-Men to Hairspray???!!), and of course McDreamy himself, Patrick Dempsey. Susan Sarandon is wonderfully evil as The Queen.

With so many good things in this movie, do you dare say you don’t feel like watching??
I LOVE ENCHANTED!!